Handling Marriage Fraud

Originally Published On: Mar 17, 2017

Note: Some Canadian Muslims have very evil and closed hearts and minds. I heard of this Muslim man divorce his wife through email because his relatives pushed him to get rid of his wife. There was no involvement by a third party, which is usual in such cases. 

My personal experiences with some Muslims aren’t that amazing. Most of the Muslims I have met are exceptionally busy abusing very critical parts of the Quran and Islam. For instance, Islam gives the women a right to have their own property, job, money, and third party involvement when it comes to sensitive issues like divorce or separation. Islam also lets you choose the rulings granted by any Non-Muslim country or the Islamic rulings. It gives you this choice to prevent any framing that Muslims may themselves indulge in by shackling the women or by removing or altering the rest of the Islamic rulings and rights. For instance, some Canadian Muslim men aren’t telling the revert (convert) Muslim women about the Islamic Prenuptial Agreement that allows the women to state all of their conditions, including the choice to be in a polygamous or monogamous relationship before they even step into a marriage─I have seen two such cases up close. Islam also says that this prenuptial agreement can be stated under the allowed terms that are offered by an individual’s country. I read these facts several times so I memorized them. This way, I won’t ever have to waste time finding the exact quotes. 

These types of issues are the reason why I have been participating in the “Buddy Program“. Before you continue reading my comments, know that the mainstream media misrepresents the facts and tells us that this kind of abuse is only taking place in certain groups. They do this to blackmail certain communities while deferring attention from the rest of the affected communities as well as their way of living.

Fraudulent marriages that involve force or misleading the women are very common in Canada. Before you continue reading my comments, know that some of the mainstream media misrepresents the facts and tells us that it is only happening in certain groups. They do this to blackmail certain communities while deferring attention from the rest of the affected communities as well as their way of living.

A year ago, I was at a marriage networking event where I met a man who was new to Canada. He sat right next to me and talked about himself. He seemed a bit distressed so I started communicating as naturally as I could. Consequently, he relaxed and started talking to me. I feel that after talking to me he actually got less confused and admitted that he has a wife back home. I was shocked when I heard his confession. After the event was over, I complained to one of the female organizers about him.

There are men like him who are willing to mislead women. Some of them are doing this because they can’t bring the rest of family to Canada; and, others are participating in this genocide to get permanent residence in Canada. The victims are young and inexperienced women, divorced women, or unmarried mature women. This is why I don’t recommend that women get married in like six months after meeting a guy. You need at least a year or maybe more to learn about everything you can including the current state of your interest’s Canadian papers. I encourage women to report marriage fraud promptly by visiting Government of Canada’s Immigration and Citizenship page. I believe working in a safe group environment is the only way out. I say this because I know that some men easily tell lies about themselves and the victim to create a psychological setting where the victim becomes obedient and submissive to the abuser(s).

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