2 out of 3 Canadians: Lack of Sexual Consent, Pornography, and Sex Trafficking

I have volunteered to help out abused women before; I have a history of being physically, verbally, and sexually assaulted; and, this is why I was not surprised when I read online that 2 out of 3 Canadians do not know what sexual consent means.

I wanted to know why they did not knew about this simple task so I goggled it online. According to HuffingtonPost article, “Two Reasons Canadians Are Confused About Sexual Consent”, which is written by Diane Hill, most Canadians don’t know about sexual consent because of Sexism and Silence. This article further states the following:

They still think “real” men should aggressively pursue sex and “good” women should resist (and eventually give in).

Aggressive behaviour (by men or usual offenders) and resistance (by women or usual victims) are characteristics of rape not sex. Again, I am not surprised to read the implication that most Canadians see sex as rape.

The above article misses the role of porn in creating aggressive behaviour. Porn is actually a much loved concept among Canadians, which is hilarious given how shy and reserved most Canadians appear. I find it shocking to see that most Canadians are heading that way while not attempting to learn about the actual fun associated with courting, obtaining sexual consent, and then forming and maintaining a real relationship.

Pornhub receives over 3.7 million unique visitors in Canada per month, which accounts for 10.6% of the country, and that’s just one porn site! So clearly, there’s a bit of underreporting going on when it comes to Canadians denying their own love of porn. Source: “Canadians Love to Pretend They Don’t Watch Porn” by Justin Ling.

Just one porn site, Pornhub, receives 10.6% of the Canadian population. I realize why some men at one of my previous workplaces were talking about porn so openly—obviously, I moved away from that office pretty soon. So what exactly is pornography doing to change sexual behaviour and harm the partner/spouse? According to Brian Mcneill’s article “How pornography influences and harms sexual behaviour” males who watched porn visualized pornographic images during sex on purpose. OK! If you are experiencing porn and not sex during sexual encounters, then how are you going to read your partner well? How are you going to tell that you are hurting your partner or just having fun?

Furthermore, I think that if pornography is twisting men’s behaviour, then it can cause rape really easily. For example, some porn involves intimate acts after listening to just a little bit of conversation that is not always considered romantic. Correct! If you study a rapist up close, you will see that he/she acts the same way.

We found that exposure to pornography increased dart throwing at human faces, which is correlated with aggressive tendencies….In particular, viewing violent pornography can increase males’ subsequent aggressive behaviour because it portrays a male’s coercive and aggressive behavior against a female victim as being a reward. Source: “Effects of Exposure to Pornography on Male Aggressive Behavioral Tendencies” by Dong-ouk Yang and Gahyun Youn.

Now think about this! Most Canadians are busy watching porn, which is what’s skewing their behaviour. Men are learning to be more aggressive and thus most women have learned to walk away. I have even met some Canadian women who do not want to have any sort of relationship with men due to their history of abuse. So if there are more and more Canadian women who are like this, then obviously men are watching more and more porn. But, that might be adding more force inside their minds. So what do they end up doing? Well! They are then participating in sex trafficking.

When men use pornography, in that process they are trained as tricks. Pornography is men’s rehearsal for prostitution. Source: “The Problem of Demand in Combating Sex Trafficking” by CAIRN INFO.

This above quote now takes us to the Erika Klein’s article “Human Sex Trafficking: Canada’s Hidden Crime”, which was published on The Mantle.

A booming black market industry, earning $32 billion dollars annually, more than the worth of Google, Starbucks and Nike combined. Human trafficking for the purposes of selling sexual acts, also known as sexual terrorism, is the use of illicit sex, violence and threats to intimidate or coerce to the state of fear and submission. It’s a problem worldwide, but it is becoming more widespread in North America, especially in Canada.

So you see why 2 out of 3 Canadians don’t know about sexual consent? So you see their future given that pornography and sex trafficking remain high in Canada?

Perhaps, it helps to know that Canada’s legal system itself is helping these causes. For example, the article “Why police dismiss 1 in 5 sexual assault claims as baseless” by Robyn Doolittle clearly state some flaws in the process used to handle sexual assault allegations.

Every year, an average of 5,500 people are reporting sexual violence to Canadian police, but their cases are dropping out of the system as unfounded long before a Crown prosecutor, judge or jury has a chance to weigh in.

The result is a game of chance for Canadian sex-assault complainants, whose odds of justice are determined not only by the facts of their case, but by where the crime took place, which police force picks up their file, and what officer shows up at their door.

Earlier in my blog, you must have read that I stated that Canada is actually one of the most dangerous countries to live in. Again, you can see why I think so.

Capitalizing on Muslim Marriage Crisis

There is a real Marriage Crisis that’s enfolding in the North America and influencing the lives of the Muslims. And, I strongly believe that the Muslim women are not at fault because this crisis might just be an indication of Female Infanticide, which is plaguing almost every country in one form or another.

As you must have read before, I am originally from Pakistan; and, I have two ex-fiances. I have been hunting for a good match for a really long while. But, I am finding that there are lots of men who I find unattractive; and, there are lots of men who expect things from me that I won’t be able to provide. Once a well-known Lawyer who was a convert Muslim man (he was originally a Christian) contacted me regarding dating, which we were hoping will eventually lead to marriage. When we talked on the phone, he bluntly asked if I would be interested in being a housewife because that’s what he was looking for. He was a White Canadian man. I was very surprised when I heard him say this to me. I refused right away and we both hung up.

I took a break from all this by focusing on my studies. Now that my studies are over, I am back hunting for a good proposal. Its been very discouraging so far but let’s see what happens next. I just talked to a close friend of mine who advised me to use both the net and personal connections to get through. So, I browsed the web today and found the article titled “Canadian women create ‘offline dating’ service for Muslims looking for love”.

Signing up for Matchbox is free, but a single introduction is $250. A “one-to-one platinum service,” which includes meeting the person’s friends and family, and confirming details like health, education and employment, start at $10,000.

$250 for a single introduction and $10,000 for checking and confirming personal details! Really! I know that this service is offering a scamming environment because it does not cater to the needs of the target population. For example,  a while back, I was at a meetup held by Muslim Mingle. I gave only $20 entrance fee for a party at a local Grill Restaurant. The environment was safe because the group admins were informed about how to keep all the candidates and their personal information safe. I was introduced to around 20  men; and, I did not feel much interest in any of them. This is normal because this society has made us smarter and patient. Also, grown ups don’t develop a strong interest in anyone without reading into things for really long. Furthermore, Muslim Mingle meetup was decent as well. I sat inside a real restaurant; ate and drank lots of free food and beverages; and, connected with lots of men and women. It felt like a real party! Lastly, I had 5 minutes to have a private discussion with every guy. At the end of discussion, everyone submitted an index card with names of the individuals they felt interested in. I submitted a blank index card! So for $20, I met around 20 guys and did not feel connected to any of them. Who would want to pay $250 for a single introduction given that almost everyone is selecting in a very selective manner? And, $10,000 for checking personal details sounds very unreasonable. I know a couple of abused women who actually spent a whole lot of time checking the details of their guys before marrying them—one of these abused women is a relative of mine and another one is a close friend of mine. Despite all the precautions these smart ladies took, they still got severely abused. So why spend $10,000 on verifying things when the society we are living in has become extremely manipulative and uncaring.

Saying all this, I am back to the hunt to find a cool mate for myself. However, I have severe doubts about what is going on out there. I wonder if I will be slaughtered or married!

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Canada’s Double Glass Ceiling: Where Should Canadian Women Go?

Below are some interesting facts of my life that made me think about what exactly is going on in Canada and whether Canadian women should seek to stay in Canada or move away to some other country:

  1. I was an extrovert and was very well-integrated in the society before I came to Canada. I felt that I became very quiet and reserved while living here; and, nobody bothered to find out about me until I came out of this ordeal on my own.
  2. As a Technical Writer, I have to sometimes work in the Tech sector. I am finding that there are less women who work with men in the Tech sector; and, there are more women who are complaining about being mistreated while finding work.
  3. There are times when I see Canadian students give more attention to a lame comment by a male student than to a more informed comment by a female student. Some of them do not bother to attempt to learn why the male student’s comment can easily be regarded as dumb. After graduating and getting a great job, these students are going to actively under-represent women in the workforce.
  4. Because I am an ENFP and thus very friendly and easy-going, I get to hear a lot of personal aggravations every other day from almost everyone.
  5. I have been abused multiple times by men during the interview. This abuse goes from asking me to visit too many times or asking me questions about my religion and culture when I am already too stressed. Most of this abuse was reported to the correct authorities.

According to Marina Glogovac’s article “The challenge for women to smash the glass ceiling”, which was published on The Globe and Mail in 2016, only 0.32% of the female participants of the Canadian labor force (48%) find a job in senior management.

In the 2016 Statista article “Which countries have the most women in senior management?”, Niall McCarthy does not list Canada in the top ten or the bottom ten countries that have the most women in senior management. However, the writer lists Indonesia and China in the top ten list and Turkey and India in the top bottom list.

According to the IT World Canada’s article “Women are seriously under-represented in the Canadian tech sector and it’s not improving: new report”, which was written by Mandy Kovacs in 2017, women are under-represented in the Tech sector. Read my personal experience, point 2.

According to a 2015 article “The Countries with the Most Women Managers Worldwide”, which was published on Expert Market and authored by Jared Keleher, US and Canada don’t make the list of top 10 countries that mostly hire and protect senior female executives. Canada is number 36 in this list, below Jamaica and Philippines.

According to the CNBC article “Companies with more female executives make more money—here’s why. 2018”, which was published by Yoni Blumberg in 2018,  gender diversity enhances a company’s performance—by the way, this article shares the picture of Facebook’s CEO, Sheryl Sandberg, who resembles the Indian actress, Alia Bhatt.

A profitable firm at which 30 percent of leaders are women could expect to add more than 1 percentage point to its net margin compared with an otherwise similar firm with no female leaders,” the report notes. “By way of comparison, the typical profitable firm in our sample had a net profit margin of 6.4 percent, so a 1 percentage point increase represents a 15 percent boost to profitability.

In one of the oldest religions, Islam, female business professionals are given a lot of weight. For instance, Lady Khadija (Prophet Mohammad’s first wife) was one of the wealthiest Arab trader and many female industry leaders were created through her although we don’t have a complete documentation of these other women.

Now, let me give you a cool hint about myself. Many women of my household are senior executives or business professionals. I inherited great business guts this way. This is why when I get severe gut feelings about where my male relatives should be investing and from where they should be removing their money. Every time I tell them that something is wrong with an investment of theirs, then something turns out wrong even years afterwards. This mostly happens with my close relatives and friends. It is also true that sometimes I think and compute like regular humans and other times I get way ahead too fast—when I become different, I clearly hear a voice telling me something and I clearly state that something is wrong.

Here is another hint about my intelligence. Several years ago, a friend of mine—a well-respected Canadian lawyer—briefly discussed the conditions of Canadian women and left the decision of helping out in my hands. I decided to move forward on my own and started discussing and implementing his brain child, “Buddy Program”.  I investigated totally on my own and reported on my blog several times that something was really wrong. I followed my gut feeling again; and, this time I beat the Canadian Feds (see Global News article “New survey details widespread harassment in Canada’s workplaces”) because they had more tools, resources, and access than I did! They only posted this article in 2017; and, I made my conclusions before that by reviewing my personal experiences, talking to mostly women, and reading articles only. You can see a print screen of my older blog, Writer’s Dojo. I wrote my first article about the “Buddy Program” in 2016.

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In conclusion, finding a great management job in Canada is pretty tough. A lot of times I am triangulated in a very deceptive manner by multiple individuals so that they may break me down. I am sure that the same is happening to the other Canadian women. I strongly feel that the Canadian women can either fight this oppression or they can desert the Canadian men and flee for a better country. See “18 of the Best International Recruitment Agencies in Canada”.

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About Canadian Workplaces: I Was Telling You The Truth!

You must have read my previous posts about how I feel abused while working in Canada and how deeply I regret my decision of coming to Canada.

Some Canadian Workplaces Are Very Abusive Towards Women

Workplace Harassment and Racism Causes Sexual Abuse and Trafficking

Canada Offers a Facade to Its Citizens

Do Canada’s Rules About Employee Harassment Apply to Minorities?

Framing and Misuse of the Canadian Muslim Women

Just today, I found a video on Global News that discusses how Canada has a really big issue that is disrupting her economy; namely, Workplace Harassment.  The video is discussing results of a large survey (90,000 participants) that was recently run by the federal government.  Half of the survey participants reported that they were being harassed, which should tell you about the manner of conduct inside many Canadian workplaces. A good survey has to be representative of the population: the large size of the survey; reliable and detailed statistics; independent source like the federal government; and, how my story is tying in on its own tells you that many or perhaps most Canadian workplaces are unsafe for serious-minded and talented individuals, especially women.

Here is another video about this.

I am documenting everything; and, I intend to share some of my personal traumatic experiences with the rest of the world through my novel, “She The Mirror”.  Just recently, I even tried approaching a Muslim man to help me out who was so ill-informed and uneducated that he tried doubting and questioning me first. He almost made it look like that perhaps I was at fault—he isn’t the first man I have permanently blocked from all my online accounts, cellphone, and life. This is true of most men regardless of their religion and culture—the Global News video clearly shares that mostly its the women who are being abused. In conclusion, you will become very invisible if you are a woman who is trying to work and settle in Canada.

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Canada Offers a Facade to Its Citizens

Canada offers really big lies to its citizens and protestors and victims are often abused. Ever since I came here, I have gone through so much abuse and neglect that you have no idea; and, I have seen so many other Canadians getting thoroughly mistreated. Most of the times, its everyone else who is participating in abuse through group dynamics and conversations, which is designed to make the victims talk their way and ignore his/her actual comments. For example, let me just point out that some college students usually work together to make the victims do all sorts of things that they don’t wish to dothey have learned to become “Masters of Victim Blaming” through their educational system as well as the rest of the Canadian system. As a results, there are so many Human Rights complaints that are hidden everywhere in Canada going from schools to workplaces. And, most of the abusers expect their victims to work well with their abusers. In my opinion, Canada is actually one of the most abusive countries in this world and this fact is not documented properly because nobody is speaking out─this is why in my young and fresh mind there is a clear demarcation between how abusive individuals communicate and how regular folks do it.

  • I have no clue who can fail students on sexual assaults. But, this article gives you a glimpse into the types of criminal mentality that is being taught through the Canadian academic organizations. Canadian universities are failing students on sexual assault
  • I and some other credible individuals know that Nursing colleges, especially Humber College, have very abusive Clinical Faculty that abuses inexperienced student nurses. Canadian universities are hiding some very hard core criminals. Justice on Campus.
  • Abuse is on the rise inside Canadian Workplaces. This goes from messing up terms of contracts to framing them by using groups to forge documents. I became aware of this when a top executive at the University of Toronto told me that he was framed by his peers; and, when another honest peer of mine won a case against a couple of women who framed him while he was working inside Pall Canada, Mississauga. Harassment and violence in the Canadian workplace; an issue on the rise
  • Human Sex Trafficking is a hidden crime inside Canada because there aren’t many people who will help out with this cause. How can we expect people to help out with this cause when abusers are sitting inside almost every place, like colleges or news channels, that are required to create movements? I once came across a male Sex Predator who was in both Management and Mentoring. How difficult is it to tell who you are dealing with now? Human Sex Trafficking: Canada’s Hidden Crime
  • Mental Health Issues are on the rise in Canada. I have been noticing many mentally sick individuals including students, managers, professors, and librarians. Just a while ago, a librarian (from Algonquin College) noticed me standing near the printer and intrusively started talking to me. I was still checking the printer and I did not fully notice that she wanted to help. So when she started poking the printer, I continued clicking on a specific button as well. Pretty soon, she turned and yelled at me, “You cannot touch this printer while I am working on it”. I was going to say to her, “Hey! I never asked your help and you bumped in on your own”; but, I felt forced to ignore her comment because there are too many of her kind of folks roaming around in Canada. That’s how I have been noticing that something wrong is going on in Canada. I am being forcibly taught this shit and  I have to keep away from so many people to stay sane! These 3 groups are at ‘high risk’ of mental health issues in Canada. Here’s why 
  • Colored students and immigrants are brought to Canada and they are told that they will have a grand life hereI was told the same when I came to Canada. Then, they are abused in a very gross manner and kept behind the “Double Glass Ceiling”. These kinds of lies that are being spread around the world to loot money in return for oppression are an indication of the mental health issues that have always existed at a high rate in Canada. Brain Drain II: Immigrants let glass ceiling gather dust You are going to notice the comment that Canada is becoming very unpopular globally due to this. What’s adding to this craziness is the fact that Hate Crimes against Muslims have gone by 253% over the last four years. Imagine targeting another group through the use of media and technology and you are bound to see a similar increase in abuse. You wonder why we have to read almost every booklet that’s offered by Canadian organizations, which are promoting multiculturalism, that Canada is labelled as heaven for those who love diversity and different cultures? Its actually like living in Hell!

I came to Canada around 16 years ago and I have been noticing strong efforts to keep me in positions where I don’t even use like 25% of what I actually know. Seriously! I appeal to everyone who has been abused while living inside Canada to come forward and start discussing with their trustworthy friends and peers about what exactly is going on. Feel free to share with bloggers or journalists who are aware of this issue and be wary of any traps that can be set to abuse further as you share. Desert those who wish to desert you because you will find more noteworthy partners later on. Remember, the abusers are hitting you on the head as they desert you so that you may develop “Stockholm Syndrome” or “PTSD” and thus become a dummy that will play well in their hands.

I created hashtag #abusedincanada on Twitter. So far, there are only five Twitter posts that are showing under this hashtag. Feel free to use this hashtag and add more. I am adding snapshots here because these should show you what I am talking about. Sorry if it looks like a repeat snapshot. Its just that I have to show you that one post is flowing into the next so that you may not feel that I am cutting some information on purpose.

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Canadian International Students Face Danger

Note: The story of the South Korean International student that I am discussing here is totally true. I am whistleblowing about this after reading a relevant article. 

The International students who arrive in Canada, especially the coloured ones, face extreme danger. They are told through terrific Marketing that Canada is diverse and multicultural. They aren’t told that Canada is a very racist country despite everything else and it’s very easy to abandon, kill, torture, or harass coloured people here. Stereotypes, discrimination, and need for power play a significant role in all this. I have been fighting all this on my own until I started collapsing and deciding to post some of my personal detail online. I feel that Canada is so racist that colour of skin is pasted inside most minds like this: Aboriginals get the worst treatment, then the Muslims, then Latinos, and so on. I learned all this while working and studying in Canada. I am not a spy, a cop, a politician, a terrorist, or anything along those lines because all these sound too extreme and harsh to my very sensitive mind. I am just a Canadian student and employee.

I have come to believe that International students are in danger because they are told that Canada is very accepting. They throw their money in and then lots and lots of them are unfairly passed through Canada’s revolving doors so that they keep thinking that they need to invest more and more in Canadian courses or volunteer work. Quite frankly, they have to keep investing like this for a long while while their White peers land a job and get married or move on with their lives. Some International students who come here don’t even know the impact of culture shock and how to handle it. And, usually nobody stops to explain that your need to scream for help isn’t an indication of mental illness but just a culture shock—that’s what happened to me. This is why some of them get very misused and then they can’t talk about it because they don’t know whom to trust and because the locals are not building trust the right way—we all know that overcoming culture shock requires receiving strong and detailed feedback and assistance from the locals.

I just read this article about Sex Trafficking by The Mantle and thought about one of my personal experiences. A long while ago, I was friends with a South Korean International student. We were best buddies because she needed to talk and I loved listening to her—I was not in any of her classes though. I was slowly learning about her and her culture when one day I realized that she wasn’t reaching out to me anymore. I called and left a message on her cell and I emailed her to find out what’s going on. My head is kind of OUT about this experience so I can’t remember how many years passed after she emailed me back. In her email she explained that she was actually homeless for several days. I got scared thinking how nobody else found out about this in time and why other Canadians she was studying with did not come to her rescue. Did this happen due to their Bystander Effect or her culture shock; if she had a culture shock, then why didn’t the rest of the students figured out what to do before her circumstances worsened? I don’t know! She was on the streets for several days and she could have been trafficked for sex slavery if the wrong set of guys would have arrived. But, God saved her. Her family got there and rescued her. I am just glad that she is alive.

I think you are going to get my point. As an ENFP, it’s my job to point out how lack of a good system and team work is killing young and smart individuals who just happen to be here in Canada and who don’t know anything about how it all works. Sometimes, I sleep feeling disturbed thinking if there is one of those really pretty Asian girls on the streets who came here to study but ended up getting trafficked as a sex slave. 

Always remember why those who have seen me perform or those who work with me call me Vendetta.

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Workplace Harassment and Racism Causes Sexual Abuse and Trafficking

Some Canadian workplaces are very dangerous for your mental and physical health; this is because of the abuse that’s required due to the discriminatory practices like the Double Glass Ceiling. If you want to work in Canada, know your rights and understand what is considered proper and what isn’t. Don’t sit hushed but talk to a functional and reliable team member who can help you report any sort of abuse.

I have been in Canada for more than 15 years but I am finding out that I am having EXTREME difficulty launching a stable career. They keep moving people around like they are animals by using lies and excuses or by gaslighting anyone who wishes to help. Nobody talks about these things because you can be abused further if you did. This can sometimes happen even if the abuser is a convicted criminal and the law-makers know that he has killed or abused another a victim before. How young criminals are protected by the Canadian law is one example of this phenomenon and you will find more examples if you start looking in the right places—can you see how easy is it for a virgin or disabled to be sitting right next to a covert criminal who is working inside an office? Perhaps, if Canadian Law Makers aren’t willing to get rid of real criminals, then they should hand them to an angry mob. For instance, in 2015, several locals of the Navsari village got together and killed a 40 year old man for raping a 2 year old child—you know that the human mind will devise excuses if it doesn’t know an available option pretty well. Another criminal thing that some Canadian Hiring Managers/Recruiters do openly is expect the candidates to explain all the gaps in their resume. This is an example of FRAUD because these gaps are usually not created by the victim but by those in charge like employers or teachers—I mean why would someone sit there and create gaps in his/her resume (the only real means of getting one to the source of income)?

I have barely launched my career; and, I am doing this while managing an Expectation Gap, which is never properly discussed by the right set of people—Canada don’t have a concrete way of handling Expectation Gap and the Canada-Ontario Job Grant that was just launched in 2014 only offers $10,000 (5 months because monthly living expenses usually boil down to around $2000) for training purposes. Canada is really that abusive towards coloured people and abusers know how to change the subject by saying that these are her personal experiences or maybe she made a mistake. KNOW that this is how NARCISSISTS  lie so please do not buy anything they tell you—due to narcissism, things like Workplace Rights or Human Rights aren’t working that well in Canadian workplaces or academic institutes. For example, I have already reported or complained about 7 abusive people I met in Canadian workplaces or academic institutes and I am barely starting out; and, I am watching a trend where some Canadians including very senior professionals who are sick of being mistreated while they are at work are choosing to disclose personal information only to Immigrants, Refugees, Visitors, or International Students because they have started feeling that they are safer with them. Racism and abuse can develop Stockholm Syndrome and make victims submissive to Sexual Abuse and Sex Trafficking. I wouldn’t have believed this statement fully because of how confusing it seems; then I read the article “Human Sex Trafficking: Canada’s Hidden Crime” by The Mantle and found out that its talking about something similar to what I have always suspected. I feel that these types of bullies are winning by doubling and shifting the minds and intentions of their victims. If this statement isn’t making any sense, then read “Shifting: The Double Lives of Black Women in America” by Charisse Jones and Kumea Shorter-Gooden. REPORT ANY TYPE OF ABUSER TO SOMEONE WHO CARES OR KNOWS WHAT TO DO NEXT OR GET AS FAR AWAY AS POSSIBLE. Take help from an ENFP while doing this because they just know by default how to bring team work, individual characteristics, and human psychology into the picture to shift the blame to the abusers. That’s how I am surviving and getting away with filing so many reports or discussing so many complaints. Strangers and friends have started listening to me and believing me because they find me more genuine, thorough, and loving.

Working in Canada is like working in hell if the right set of people aren’t watching out for you. So please DO NOT WORK IN CANADA if you are coloured and if you don’t have someone who can watch out for you. Canada is really that dangerous for coloured peoplefor more than 10 years, I have been hearing similar “hushed” complaints from so many people that its driving me NUTS. It doesn’t quite show out there because colored people are very smart and because they know how to handle their lives; and, they all know that sharing personal information might eventually KILL them. The fact that Whistleblowing can get you fired if you did this in Canada shows you what I mean by “KILL them”. These people can’t even handle minor discrimination cases really well, how are they going to handle whistleblowing?

Stand up for yourself! Always remember why those who have seen me perform or those who work with me call me Vendetta.

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Framing and Misuse of the Canadian Muslim Women

Note: I have been collecting these ideas slowly over some years by speaking to Muslim women and watching how some Muslim families and the Canadian society have been working together to oppress the Muslim women─some of them offer us victim blaming but appear “accepting” and “loving” in the mosques or inside their communities. I once saved three young Muslim women from domestic abuse and abuse by unknown males; and I escaped a kidnapping attempt by two Black males by frightening them with my cellphone. As you read the rest of this article, know that none of this is fabricated in any way. I learned about the basic idea for the “Buddy System” through a lawyer and started a volunteer group on my own. This group is very small, and it lacks resources and manpower; this is why I am choosing to work only with those victims of abuse who are safe towards me. Some victims of abuse temporarily exhibit very psychotic tendencies, which is why I am careful about whom I should be working with.

Also, note that the Canadian media mostly hires White people so that the other side of the story or correct representation of the facts─the entire story of the Muslims or the colored people as it takes place under the veil of “diversity”─may remain missing. One example of this queer phenomenon is when we read about a Muslim who looted a bank, but we are never told that that individual had PTSD or Stockholm Syndrome and he/she needed psychiatric assistance not jail. You will find lots of such stories online because the mainstream media creates and sells lies. Canadian media is an excellent of the White Saviour Complex where the commentary is provided only to appear good and to uproot and abuse families and communities instead of helping them safely handle chronic societal issues that are there due to ongoing neglect. Journalism and Politics work together, and we all know that some people who indulge in Politics a lot are great at narcissism. They are parenting us like we are children, which is why we aren’t allowed to thoroughly communicate by using the mainstream media. This is why I believe that the Canadian Muslim community needs to be treated for the scary side effects of being constantly gaslighted and mistreated through narcissism.

I have been talking to a couple of Canadian Muslim women who have been suffering from extreme abuse that’s inflicted on them by the Muslim men and their families. So I completed some investigation on my own and found out other similar cases in the community and online. Here is a list of articles that tells you the kind of things that are going on inside the Canadian Muslim community, and it indicates some of the abusive gang dynamics and culture that are being offered by the Canadian society:

The major and more formal portion of this investigation started when a lawyer approached me with regards to the “Buddy System”. He said that he needed the women to do something about this because the men who aren’t victimizers may not know where these abused women are and how they have been kept. So I started talking to some Muslim women and girls and learned a couple of things that struck me as extremely peculiar. Sometimes, I am referring to the possibility that there must be similar cases out there of which I am not aware of by stating “some Muslim women” or “some Muslim men”. Behavior is usually taught and learned in a group setting, which is why I think that cases of domestic abuse that targets women are actually hinting to a much deeper norm where the majority is equally guilty as the minority. Below, I am going to show you how racism and inequality that exists within the the Canadian system and society is working together with the harmful attitudes that are offered by some Muslim families and men to silent the victims─its all a setup; and I know of some of these cases because either a very reliable source informed me or because I have been able to communicate with the victims.

  1. Some Muslim women are being raised inside houses where their men don’t listen to them and a lot of times they suffer due to “lack of cherishment”.
  2. Some influential Muslim women are less likely to get away with requests to get a woman hired than a man even if that request is made to an Imam.
  3. Some educated Muslim graduates are at the risk of being lied and blackmailed by their Muslim employers who are doing all this because others in their circles are leading this way.
  4. Inexperienced, young, and vulnerable Muslim women are being severely mistreated by false White friendsI know two such cases where two Muslim female professionals were being mocked and harassed by some White Canadians who befriended them for a year or more.
  5. Some Muslim women are not being paid reasonably for their efforts and work. I once met a female speaker who was running educational seminars in one of the Ottawa-based mosques. When I asked her how much she was earning, she said that she is not making anything at all. For some unknown reason, I felt that she was being brainwashed. I stared at her and wondered why she isn’t even given the minimum stipend for running such heavy classes every now and then. So I met another Muslim woman who was visiting the same mosque and felt scared when she said to me, “We Muslim women do not work for money, and we work for God. What I do for others is for God.” My jaw dropped open when I heard this from her─I mean, how are such women going to make any difference in this society where change means offering donations or exhibiting control. I feel that such women are participating in something very dangerous because they are busy removing the idea of “working in a paid capacity”, which is allowed in Islam, from the minds of younger women and girls, converts, and stressed women. Sure! it is a good idea to help out charities and masjids, but know that the administration of some of the masjids might be busy looting the offered resources one way or another. Should the Muslim women trust this conditioning and treatment any further?
  6. Some Muslim women who are married to filthy rich, educated, and vocal Canadian Muslim men are actually locked inside houses as their husbands neglect them and their children. While acting as a buddy, I have seen two such cases. I can’t reveal any of their personal information because of fear of victim blaming and because they are actually using social case workers and lawyers to get through.
  7. Canada’s legal system and perhaps the Canadian society as a whole expect “Hyper-Responsibility” from women, which is how they can forcibly criminalize some of the victims of abuse.
  8. Muslim women suffer from neglect and abuse when they come home after being rejected from job interviews. This is very common in Canada. We all know that jobs are necessary for adults to grow and present themselves as responsible members of the community and the household.  Canada is very racist, and thus Canada’s Muslim women are underrepresented in many fields and platforms.

Therefore, I have sufficient reason to state that some Muslim men and women have been strategically brainwashing the Muslim women to ask for less, work for free, and complain less when they are in pain. I am sure some of these women are being gravely misused because their abusive partners or guardians (men and sometimes women) are busy running almost everything on their own. These guardians have heavy insurances, stable jobs, and investments; however, the female victims know only the most basic things like how to deposit money in the bank or how to deliver a rehearsed speech.

These abusive Muslim men and women are part of the double glass ceiling that Canada is offering to the Muslim women regardless of the level of authority the abusers are exercising in their community. I know so many women who do not visit the masajids (mosques) or stick around other Muslims because they do not wish to be involved in framing or be abused in any way. In some cases, this behavior is actually preventing the women from being caught inside a psychotic gang.

IF YOU FIND ANY MUSLIM WOMEN WHO ARE VICTIMS OF ABUSE, DO NOT DISCUSS ANYTHING THEY TELL YOU WITHOUT GETTING WRITTEN PERMISSION WITH THE HELP OF A LAWYER BECAUSE SOMETIMES THE VICTIMS CAN GET FURTHER ABUSED OR EVEN KILLED THIS WAY. MAKE SURE TO REPORT TO THE CORRECT AUTHORITIES LIKE SOCIAL CASE WORKERS OR LAWYERS. YOU CAN ALSO TALK THE VICTIM INTO FILING A REPORT IF YOU KNOW HOW TO HANDLE HER CASE WITHOUT CAUSING FURTHER HARM. AND, KNOW THAT THERE ARE BOTH GOOD AND BAD PEOPLE AMONG “THOSE WHO HAVE AUTHORITY” AND “THOSE WHO DO NOT”. YOU HAVE TO KNOW HOW TO IDENTIFY, REPORT, AND STOP FRAMERS IF YOU NEED TO DO THIS PROPERLY. STOP SCAPEGOATING OR VICTIM BLAMING THE WOMEN, WHICH IS VERY COMMON IN CANADA, IF YOU REALLY WANT THEM TO BE FUNCTIONAL MEMBERS OF THIS SOCIETY.

Copyright © by Arzoo Zaheer. All Rights Reserved.

Demonizing Islam through Lame Lies

Originally Published On: Dec 18, 2016

Note: This commentary is a response to the YouTube video “Muslim rape slavery comes to Canada“. Please click through all the links and review all the associated articles. Otherwise, don’t read any of this because its not going to make any sense. Also note that the Western media mostly hires White people because this way coloured individuals cannot pinpoint to an issue, and only the White community members appear as saviors─just like Hollywood, this is an example of the White Saviour Complex.

I just watched horrible commentary by Ezra Levant that linked a despicable crime like rape to Islam. This video fails to mention four very critical aspects of Islam:

  1. Islam utilizes the testimony of women to punish rapists but some current so-called Islamic governments fail to implement this ruling.
  2. Rape is not acceptable even if you are looking at slaves. I am under the impression that the earliest Muslims were allowed to marry slaves but only after receiving consent and offering mahr (money offered by the groom to the bride). These marriages were offered as deception to the society so that eventually the slaves can be freed and empowered─remember that this society required slavery and its members would have gladly killed those who tried to openly abolish it. Hence, a deception was offered; and slowly the idea was implemented so that slave masters started freeing slaves in very large numbers.
  3. Slavery was slowly abolished by Prophet Mohammad (peace be upon him) as he offered a great example to the rest by granting the slave women he married freedom, status, and rights; and, as he employed freed slaves as independent leaders of his society. Do you think that Prophet Mohammad (we are now told this man is a captor) would have been able to stand up against those slaves whom he himself freed after granting them freedom, respect, and independence? One such very popular example is the leader Bilal. If there is one such man, then there were more and more such women and men.
  4. Islam encourages Muslims to seek assistance from investigators and lawyers by using any governing law (such as Christianity, Judaism, and Hinduism) given that those are their authorities. (What if this ruling is useless now because Muslims are being heavily profiled not only in North America but also in other parts of the world?)

You can verify my comments by talking to exceptionally educated Imams or Muslim or by thoroughly reviewing the original Islamic literature.

The speaker cries “Islamic rape slavery” has come to Canada now. But, rape slavery was already in Canada and the rest of the West; and, rape or slavery have nothing to do with Islam─Islam makes the women free in so many ways; e.g., I broke my first and second engagements because I wasn’t interested in those candidates and because Islam grants me this right. Blackmailing commentary like the above is clearly an attempt to brainwash masses who don’t know much about Islam so that people may start believing that Islam is a cruel religion that seeks to oppress women and children. Showcasing Muslim men as violent and numb is the same as when Joseph Conrad shows Africans as having no ability to speak or worthy of only being chained. The phrase “Islamic rape slavery” is just like the statements that are issued by some journalists who substitute the word “rape” with “affair”.

Then, Ezra brings a second case where a gang of British-Pakistani Muslim men got away with raping 1400 white girls for a period of 16 years. He further comments that they got away because they were Muslims. Honestly! There is no point in deluding the audience like this. Perhaps, you don’t want them to know that British, America, United Kingdom, and Canada all have their own versions of child abuse and sex slavery. Here are some interesting articles that should clarify how the elite including politicians and military personnel are participating in such abuse. But, this usually does not get caught or gets caught with lots of difficulties because the abusers are rich, famous, and “the best”.

Behind Anonymous’s Operation to Reveal Britain’s Elite Child-Rape Syndicate

This article shows how Scotland Yard found out that the British VIPs were involved in the rape and murder of young boys.

Child sexual abuse in the United Kingdom

According to this article, child sex abuse in the United Kingdom involves popular entertainers, politicians, military personnel, and other officials.

Power, Pedophilia, and the US Government

This article shares the fact that pedophilia sex scandals involve the highest levels of elite including US presidents and the British royal family.

‘Sex slaves are on every street in Britain’

In Britain, young girls who don’t know anything about concepts like “PTSD” or “Stockholm Syndrome” are thrown in the world of sex trafficking by boys and men who know grooming and abuse. The gifting and incidence parts of the abuse cycle keep the victims quiet for very long periods like several years.

Human Trafficking & Modern-day Slavery in Canada

Sex trafficking is a hidden crime in Canada. Only recently, the Toronto police has started a serious campaign to handle this issue. The Mantle Thought has also brought this issue up.

‘Invisible War’ Shines Light on Rape in the Military

You can find tons and tons of articles and documentaries about how the Canadian and American militaries are sometimes hiding stories of rape.

What Lies Beneath the Robes: Are Buddhist Monasteries Suitable Places for Children?

Rape of children takes place at some Buddhist monasteries; and, thus it is safe to conclude that Buddhist men and women are also at risk of being raped given that they are visiting a monastery of concern. There are times when raped children grow up to become rapists too. Is this Buddhist monk rapist a rape victim too or is he a full-fledged psychopath or sociopath?

The evidence for such cases are hard to find because really less number of individuals end up reporting this kind of crime; there is a stronger hush code; or people don’t know about signs of rape and abuse. One only needs to watch cases of Linda Lovelace and Samantha Geimer to see how easy it is to hide evidence as well as confuse victims to cooperate. In both cases, the attackers were White men namely Chuck Traynor and Roman Polanski respectively. They were both very difficult to catch: Traynor was receiving support from a lawyer who hid details of the abuse and Polanski was arrested after 31 years.

I believe sex slavery and rape are linked to domestic abuse, societal abuse, and neglect as well as other ignored issues like prostitution and pornographyquite frankly, most of the humans who are currently living on Planet Earth may not possess sufficient knowledge of the real psychology of men and women simply because their mental schemas are being gravely altered with the help of the movies and porn. The issue of sexual abuse must be addressed as something that is ailing any given society and not just an Islamic society.

Saying all this, I must comment that everyone must stop attacking Islam. These attackers and abusers are wasting my time and life. I don’t want to be sitting on the computer 24/7 and handling issues like these when I can go out and party with my friends. People who are lying about Islam should be sued for defaming Islam; creating hate crimes; and, wasting the money of their governments that’s used to stop hate crimes─QUIT RUNNING IN CIRCLES.